From Surviving to Thriving: Empowering Recovery through Connection

On September 15, 2024, Totya Platform hosted an event titled “From Surviving to Thriving: Empowering Recovery through Connection,” bringing together survivors of sexual violence for a transformative day of support, counseling, and healing held at Jangu International Bamboo Hall in Mpigi District.

“We’re here to create a space where survivors can feel seen, heard, and valued, and where their courage is celebrated,” said Eric Mar, Communications Manager at Totya Platform, as he opened the event.

Mar emphasized Totya Platform’s dedication to empowering survivors, encouraging them to find renewed strength within themselves and in each other.

“This gathering is about more than just support – it’s about showing our community’s commitment to these survivors and reinforcing our responsibility to prevent violence,” said Mpigi District Community Development Officer, who pledged continued support in the fight against sexual violence.

The event’s comprehensive program included activities designed to address the mental, emotional, and physical well-being of survivors.

The core of the day’s program included 10 group sessions, each accommodating 10-13 survivors. Facilitated by Totya Platform counselors and volunteers, these sessions offered a safe, supportive space where survivors could share their stories and gain coping skills.

Led by Ms. Irene, a dedicated child worker, music and dance therapy sessions encouraged participants to express themselves through movement. “Creative expression can be incredibly therapeutic,” said Ms. Irene. “It allows survivors to connect with themselves in a healing way and release emotions that words sometimes can’t capture.”

The event also featured a spirited football match between the Totya Girls’ team and Jangu International’s female team. Despite recent disruptions, the match generated a strong sense of belonging, with Totya Girls winning 2-1. Trophies, medals, and gifts were awarded to outstanding players.

Every survivor received practical support, including reusable pads and sugar, underscoring Totya Platform’s commitment to providing essential resources. Para-social workers, who volunteered their time and accompanied survivors to the venue in hired taxis, were also recognized for their invaluable contributions with gifts of sugar.

Susan, Totya Platform’s Emergency and Psychosocial Support Officer, expressed her pride in the survivors’ courage and resilience.

“The journey these young women are on is not easy,” Susan shared. “Seeing them today, participating with such bravery, reminds us why our work matters. We’re here to stand with them every step of the way.”

The District Health Officer offered words of encouragement, reminding the survivors of their value and urging them to prioritize their well-being.

Ms Bundi who represented the Probation, Social and Welfare Officer emphasized the importance of speaking out against violence and trusting the support systems in place.

“Our work only has meaning when survivors feel empowered to tell their stories and know they have advocates in their community,” she said.

Feedback from participants

Feedback from participants highlighted the need for more frequent gatherings, with survivors voicing strong support for events like this every school term break. Many suggested that multi-day events, with overnight accommodations, would deepen connections and enhance their support network.

“Today’s event showed me I’m not alone, and that means everything,” one survivor shared. “If we could have overnight gatherings, it would help us build even stronger bonds.”

As Totya Platform, we extend our heartfelt gratitude to the Toni Garn Foundation, the main partners of the event, for their generous support. Their support has been vital in making this event a reality.

We also appreciate support from the dedicated volunteers, para-social workers, and representatives from the Kaleke Kasome Foundation, Omuto Foundation, and Unbound.